Who We Are
We are men, women and children in your community dedicated to helping families who have lost a man, either suddenly or through a prolonged illness. We are neighbors and friends, organized as a non-profit, so that we’re ready to help when needed.
Besides the swarm of people volunteering we have a Board of Directors and Advisory Council that is made up of 8 men and women. These men and women oversee the ministry, volunteers and finances to ensure we are reaching the people in need.
Besides the swarm of people volunteering we have a Board of Directors and Advisory Council that is made up of 8 men and women. These men and women oversee the ministry, volunteers and finances to ensure we are reaching the people in need.
Caleb Davis
Caleb is a realtor primarily in the East Bay but also serves in area others as requested by his clients. Caleb has had a passion to assist widows for a very long time.
Caleb is our Social Media Director and is responsible for social media, website, email blasts, etc. Caleb is an Army Veteran and currently serves in the Army Reserve where he is an intelligence specialist. Caleb lives in the Hayward hills with his beautiful family and two large dogs. |
Craig Rochin
Craig is one-half of the dynamic Rochin duo. (He is married to Lori). Craig has previously been on the Board of Directors of Missing Man Ministry and is currently on the advisory board. Craig and Lori are members of the financial assessment team, because a clear understanding of the M3 client’s finances is of utmost importance. And usually because of the devastating situation that the newly widowed client has been faced with, their mind is not really clear. That’s where Craig and Lori step in and help make sense of their current financial situation. Always.
In one of Craig’s previous lives, he was a mechanic with American Airlines. So you’ll find him always tinkering with something around the house. Now Craig is able to enjoy two wonderful grandkids, both in Texas. So they are piling up the Southwest Airlines miles, getting to spoil………..I mean see……….the grandkids. |
Jiwon Ha
Jiwon was able to retire recently, after working 40 years at Bank of America. He was deeply involved in their IT and finance teams, which lent itself very well to Missing Man Ministry. Jiwon has graciously offered to be our Treasurer (Board of Directors) and does a fantastic job of keeping our finances in order.
Jiwon lives with his family in Dublin, CA and is quite a traveler of late. |
Lori Rochin
Lori is the other half of the dynamic Rochin duo. (She is married to Craig). Lori currently serves on the advisory board and is one of the team members to assess a Missing Man Ministry's client finances.
Lori is also responsible to mentor and train our new coordinators, as we continue to grow the Ministry. She helps bring organization to the entire team. Lori is an excellent chef so we always try to have Board meetings or strategy sessions at their home. |
Ray Parkinson
Ray currently serves the Missing Man Ministry (Board of Directors) in the role of Secretary, and has been doing so since it's founding. He keeps us on track with our clients/cases, meeting minutes, overall compliance, etc. Ray is a master of organization and brings those skills to the table with the Board, Advisory Council and Clients.
Ray’s kids are all responsible adults and living abroad, so with work commitments and personal commitments, Ray is one of those committed worldwide travelers; slightly less during the Covid 19 pandemic. Ray loves serving in various roles at Cornerstone Fellowship Livermore. He also dabbles in gardening and handyman projects around the house; when he’s there. |
David Doyle
David currently serves the Missing Man Ministry (Board of Directors) in the role of President. David has held this role since January of 2019. He is able to bring his skills from the business world, into the world of non-profits, including Missing Man Ministry.
David also serves on the board of Trivalley Conservancy (TVC), a non-profit based in Livermore, dedicated to protecting open space. https://trivalleyconservancy.org/ David and Anita currently live in San Ramon, after living in the Pleasanton/Livermore area for 15 years. Missing Man Ministry is not just a passion for David and Anita; it’s personal. David’s father passed away when David was 15 years old; Anita’s father passed away when Anita was only 11 years old. Although they would not wish these tragedies on anyone, they find great joy and comfort in being able to help the mission and clients of Missing Man Ministry. Their son, Brandon, is attending college at U.C. Santa Barbara, majoring in Biomed. Their daughter, Shayna, is in her fourth year of Vet School at U.C. Davis. |
Erin McHugh
Senior Client Services Coordinator, Colliers International M3 Role: Coordinator emchugh@missingmanministry.org Erin has been volunteering with Missing Man Ministry, as a coordinator, for about 2 years now. Having suddenly lost her life partner in 2009, she comes to us with firsthand knowledge of the support needed by widows and children while navigating the journey through loss and building a new life. In her professional life, Erin has been part of the Operations staff at Colliers International for 20 years. She is always excited to jump in, learn all about M3 and help support us in helping as many women and children as possible. In her personal life, she is recently an "empty nester" as her 25-year-old daughter is now out creating her own life. Erin has a passion for dogs and loves spending time with her 2 canine athletes enjoying Dock Diving & AKC FastCat competitions as well as Nosework training. |
Ray Abraham
Ray has been a Financial Advisor for the past 43 years and has a heart for those who have lost their father/husband. He helps with financial assessment to help us determine appropriate amounts of help we can give. He and his wife, Kristin have three adult children, 5 grandchildren and two more on the way. In his spare time, he is competitive in distance running. His workout schedule is a regular part of what he does. He competes mostly in Half Marathons and Full. He is involved in a number of non-profit/ministries and that keeps him and his wife very busy.
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Michael Schomaker
Michael has always enjoyed helping people with financial questions and being in the financial advisory business gives him a great deal of satisfaction. With Missing Man Ministry, he helps with the financial assessments and is able to put his skills to good use.
On the personal front, Michael plays the guitar in a local band and for his church's worship team. He's married with two children and loves to spend time with family in the great outdoors. They get away for boating, camping, skiing and hiking whenever possible. Pleasanton is home for the Schomaker family and they love being part of the East Bay community |